I have seen many people saying that life is all about comprise whether you accept it or not. And I strongly disagree that. We are not here to compromise. We have a purpose and that is why we are sent here.
See what we do our whole lives and especially woman. When a baby is born he doesn't know who he is. He gets his identity from his parents. He is sent to temple, mosque, synagogue, monastery and like that he gets his religion.
Eventually he starts learning about relations, life, hardships,victory, failure and thick and thins of life. He starts thinking about his own family members and starts sacrificing his dreams for his family. Which in my view is the blunder he is doing. One should never kill his dreams as this will not give him happiness and that in turn will not make his loved ones happy. At times you feel like I dream a lot more than my capability. You doubt yourself, again you are committing one more mistake. To fulfill all your dreams you may take time, you may disappoint your loved ones for a while but believe when you reach your goal they will be more than happy. They stop you from those things which in their view give you pain. They are impatient. But you should not be.
Now lets gather around and talk about love relationships. A guy likes a gal and the gal likes a guy. Perfect. They are certain that they can live with each other forever. Awesome and simple Isn't it?? Now how after certain period of time you can think about the same person that he she has changed over time and I don't feel the same for her or him. I think if I'll be with him or her I am gonna compromise throughout my life. She is the same gal and he is the same guy. What must have happened???
It means they became certain about each other just too fast. That s where patience and time plays a very important role in every aspect of your life.
Compromise should not come in any relation that is what I feel. You both should be free birds while being in a relationship. If he/ she loves you it simply means yes they love YOU fully you and just not a part of you. So, accept your partner the way he/she is.
Don't try to bring changes in them for your own good. Yes you can tell them things if you think those things can bring a positive change in the other person. Nothing wrong in that. But there should be a way of telling. You should calmly tell your partner that buddy what you are doing can relle put you in trouble and that's it. And then don't expect that they gonna listen to you. As they are individuals. You can never force anybody to do something , you just can tell them.
This way make your life simpler, happier and worth living. Live and let live. Where there is love there is no force. Let your partner be him or her.
As nothing can happen without taking action at the right time so go ahead and leave comment below. I thrive in the feedback and this is the place where you can get support.
So, Write to me to get a right way out ;)
" Live life to the utmost. Squeeze happiness from every single moment. So that you don't repent later that; THAT MOMENT PASSED AND YOU MISSED !!!"
See what we do our whole lives and especially woman. When a baby is born he doesn't know who he is. He gets his identity from his parents. He is sent to temple, mosque, synagogue, monastery and like that he gets his religion.
Eventually he starts learning about relations, life, hardships,victory, failure and thick and thins of life. He starts thinking about his own family members and starts sacrificing his dreams for his family. Which in my view is the blunder he is doing. One should never kill his dreams as this will not give him happiness and that in turn will not make his loved ones happy. At times you feel like I dream a lot more than my capability. You doubt yourself, again you are committing one more mistake. To fulfill all your dreams you may take time, you may disappoint your loved ones for a while but believe when you reach your goal they will be more than happy. They stop you from those things which in their view give you pain. They are impatient. But you should not be.
Now lets gather around and talk about love relationships. A guy likes a gal and the gal likes a guy. Perfect. They are certain that they can live with each other forever. Awesome and simple Isn't it?? Now how after certain period of time you can think about the same person that he she has changed over time and I don't feel the same for her or him. I think if I'll be with him or her I am gonna compromise throughout my life. She is the same gal and he is the same guy. What must have happened???
It means they became certain about each other just too fast. That s where patience and time plays a very important role in every aspect of your life.
Compromise should not come in any relation that is what I feel. You both should be free birds while being in a relationship. If he/ she loves you it simply means yes they love YOU fully you and just not a part of you. So, accept your partner the way he/she is.
Don't try to bring changes in them for your own good. Yes you can tell them things if you think those things can bring a positive change in the other person. Nothing wrong in that. But there should be a way of telling. You should calmly tell your partner that buddy what you are doing can relle put you in trouble and that's it. And then don't expect that they gonna listen to you. As they are individuals. You can never force anybody to do something , you just can tell them.
This way make your life simpler, happier and worth living. Live and let live. Where there is love there is no force. Let your partner be him or her.
As nothing can happen without taking action at the right time so go ahead and leave comment below. I thrive in the feedback and this is the place where you can get support.
So, Write to me to get a right way out ;)
" Live life to the utmost. Squeeze happiness from every single moment. So that you don't repent later that; THAT MOMENT PASSED AND YOU MISSED !!!"
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