Sunday, February 16, 2014

DILEMMA ABOUT FEAR

OK. So what is fear according to you? For me fear is nothing but a lack of sense of security, lack of faith, lack of hope, lack of self love. Fear is a lack.

So why one is afraid? The root reason behind the fear is losing. Be it losing love, losing a match, losing a game, loosing a friend, losing money. Whenever you feel like a loser, it means you are surrounded by fear.

Can fear be good in any way? My answer is yes. It keeps you going. If one is not afraid of anything, he can never value that thing. He'll be taking it for granted. He'll be careless towards it. And fear of losing will not affect him. So yes lil fear is good.

But too much anything is bad. And so is the case with fear. You'll lose hope and courage if you are way too afraid. You'll keep doubting your destiny and you'll end up no where. The juice of life is still left for such people to taste.

So just have lil fear in yourself and just run behind your dreams. Keep working towards them. And whenever you are afraid, just give it a thought : " Why you dreamt of such thing? What you gonna do when you'll finally reach your destination? And why you thought you have that potential to reach there?" And half the work is done.

Whenever you lose hope in life think about your achievements in life. Achievements need not to be big. For me bringing happiness on people's face is an achievement. Just ponder on "what defines your achievement?"

Whenever you feel like you gonna lose a friend or love partner. First analyse where you went wrong. And if the answer is you gave your 100 percent and still it didn't work out. Just say it in your mind that the other person is unlucky to not have you in his life. Always have that attitude in life. This is the way to reach the right person in life.


So the remedy to fear is Self- Trust and Self- Love. So people out there keep loving yourself. Have faith in yourself and you'll be there BANG ON!!!


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