DILEMMA ABOUT "MOVING ON"

When people tell you to move on, what do they actually mean. Should you simply forget everything that occurred in past? Should you simply detach yourself from your past? How could one do that? People should say things which they themselves can do. Else whatever they are saying is making no sense.

Moving On means to start living once again. To start caring about oneself once again. To be on the road back to normal. To laugh aloud when alone even though your throat is choked. To sing aloud in shower. To feel the nature. To give chance to others to get closer to you. To keep doors open to let in the happiness. Yeah this is my definition of moving on.

For say if you have lost your beloved. But if you are told not to remember him, not cry for him, not to crave for him, not to remember the beautiful times you spend with him. Excuse me you are a human being and that too a normal human being and not a person with memory loss. This taruma will be there with you till your last breathe.

You must be wishing right now that "God please erase my memory and then I'll be all right." Is this possible? Noooo. 

So I believe Moving On means to be happy and calm where ever you are, with whomsoever you are, in what ever conditions you are. As nothing remains constant. Time changes, circumstance changes, outlook for life changes, what doesn't change is your soul. I wanna be successful but the most important thing is I wanna be a person I can fall in love with.

Moving on comes with trying. As nothing can be done without giving it a try. For every thing to do in life you need to take a leap of faith. Life is a path made of leaps of faith itself. No matter what happens in life you should never stop trying.The day you have stopped doing that you are giving a call to more sufferings. you will only suffer when you want that. Start feeling happy about what you have and you'll attract more happiness. So the biggest way out of moving on is KEEP TRYING.  

A never give up attitude in life always keep you alive.If you cant get up in the worst then you'll never be able to hold the best.If you are loosing hope and courage now you are closing your doors for the future reasons of merry- making.Time will never reamin the same. Bad times will be leaded by the good times. And if you'll not have bad times you can never value good times. So bad is the new good. 

Look back over the last 10 years of your life. Make a list of the worst things that happened to you. Look at your fears. Your sadness. Your rock bottoms.

Then, realize that even though you went through ALL of THAT, you made it to today. Use this as evidence of how strong you are, and how Loving The Universe really is. And then, with this new evidence, perhaps you will have even more faith and desire to march with your head held high and your chest proud into the unknown.Why? Because when you look back at your life 10 years from then, you will feel the same way then also and that is... that no matter what happened... you made it.

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DILEMMA ABOUT REINCARNATION

Have you ever pondered upon the weird connection we have with strangers ? When we travel in public transport or to a new place or even when we enter in new class, school, company where we don't know anybody around us; which force lets us to talk to a specific person. Why we feel like smiling looking into eyes of a complete unknown person?? Why it happens sometimes that even the presence of unknown person disturbs you, makes you uneasy and you yourself are not aware of it.

Has it ever happened with you that some incident is occurring and back in your mind it clicks that the same thing has happened with me before. This is something familiar happening but you can't restore when where how it happened. Right ??

We meet so many people in our lifetime but we connect to very few. In fact when I talked to Vju (my soul mate) for the very first time, I never knew what gonna happen next. After an year we guys again came in contact. Then again we stopped talking without any reason. And then suddenly after 3 years he bumped into my life. And believe me we guys amazed each other each day we were together. Our thinking process, timing, choices and dreams every little thing was same. Even the way of reaction was same. We always used to get surprised that how is this possible for two people to be similar to that extent. But we never had answer to this.

But now I think all these strong connections have some solid reason behind them. We take birth, develop relations with people, fight, envy, sometimes face failure, sometimes face miseries, pain and sometimes we celebrate victory and so on.... At times we spend our whole life but we cannot fulfill all our desires. We can't complete the task given to us by the God. It remains incomplete. Throughout life we keep learning. Its an ongoing process. But we do commit mistakes mid way.

After we die some energy say it soul releases our body and now it needs space to exist. It is injected back again in some one. This time this person will not commit the same mistakes he did in past lifetime and will again try to fulfill his incomplete desires. This will keep on going until unless you stop desiring. The day a person stops desiring or a person who fulfilled all his desires in a given time frame, he can never be reborn. He becomes immortal. 

I believe to live our dreams. To open up our restaurant. To love myself. Yeah, you'll be back and I'll wait for you.

Has it ever happened with you? Have you lost your true love? Do you believe he/she will be back? Have you gained a person you lost in this lifetime? Do you believe in Reincarnation? What is your story?

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" Live life to the utmost. Squeeze happiness from every single moment. So that you don't repent later that; THAT MOMENT PASSED AND YOU MISSED !!!"

DILEMMA ABOUT GOD

Ok. So what is God? For some he is a supreme power, for some he is a creator, for some he is an ideal, for some he is immortal and like wise there are many beliefs about God.

Different mythologies define God differently. Many forms of God ,we guys are aware of. In India the basic reason of holidays is God. Isn't it???

Let me tell you my version of God. For me God  lies in GOOD. Simple and straight. When a person is good to himself and to others, he is a God.

Heaven, hell, devil, angel all resides on this planet earth. In fact all these reside in us.
The moment we feel bad about anything, we have entered the hell automatically. Negativity leads you to hell.

Killing is a crime. But killing Negativity is a boon for the society. I know being a social human being, to stay away from negativity is tough. But I'll tell you the way to get rid of it. All right!!! suppose a person is trying to give you a tough time say its your boss, colleague, relative, friend, family member or even stranger. What you simply have to do is keep calm at that moment. Just go silent look into his eyes. Don't loose the smile on your face. Feel good as you are the reason for eradicating some one's frustration. You are doing charity dude. Feel good about yourself. The other person will be stunned by the way you'll be behaving. And for sure he gonna feel guilty about what he did whether he admits it or not. But believe me Silence is far more stronger than words.

When ever you feel you are surrounded by negativity.Try to emit your moonlight. Show your madness then and there. You are a God. Every one is God. Keep it alive always.

The day you will realize that you have come alone on this earth and will bid the planet all alone, you got the mantra of life. In every religious book you must have read that every one has come alone and one has to leave this earth one fine day. Why they have mentioned that? The reason being we are a social being. We will build relationships. We will be attached to human race emotionally and physically. And we will  be sad when our loved one will be sad as we are attached to him. This is the basic difference between God and human. No one can make him sad. God knows that he has come alone and has to serve a purpose on this earth and will leave one day.

We take care of our body so much that we are neglecting our soul. Every one has to turn to ashes one day. What every one has is,  SOUL (GOOD). Body is just the covering of it. Without skin Human is the most ugly thing ever. Vultures will have their meal throughout. "And we are taking care of the gift wrap and not gift. "
Start caring about your soul. Start listening to your soul. Soul can only make of Aware. And the day you have become aware, you have become God.

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" Live life to the utmost. Squeeze happiness from every single moment. So that you don't repent later that; THAT MOMENT PASSED AND YOU MISSED !!!"

DILEMMA ABOUT COMPROMISE

I have seen many people saying that life is all about comprise whether you accept it or not. And I strongly disagree that. We are not here to compromise. We have a purpose and that is why we are sent here. 
See what we do our whole lives and especially woman. When a baby is born he doesn't know who he is. He gets his identity from his parents. He is sent to temple, mosque, synagogue, monastery and like that he gets his religion. 

Eventually he starts learning about relations, life, hardships,victory, failure and thick and thins of life. He starts thinking about his own family members and starts sacrificing his dreams for his family. Which in my view is the blunder he is doing. One should never kill his dreams as this will not give him happiness and that in turn will not make his loved ones happy. At times you feel like I dream a lot more than my capability. You doubt yourself, again you are committing one more mistake. To fulfill all your dreams you may take time, you may disappoint your loved ones for a while but believe when you reach your goal they will be more than happy. They stop you from those things which in their view give you pain. They are impatient. But you should not be. 

Now lets gather around and talk about love relationships. A guy likes a gal and the gal likes a guy. Perfect. They are certain that they can live with each other forever. Awesome and simple Isn't it?? Now how after certain period of time you can think about the same person that he she has changed over time and I don't feel the same for her or him. I think if I'll be with him or her I am gonna compromise throughout my life. She is the same gal and he is the same guy. What must have happened???

It means they became certain about each other just too fast. That s where patience and time plays a very important role in every aspect of your life. 
Compromise should not come in any relation that is what I feel. You both should be free birds while being in a relationship. If he/ she loves you it simply means yes they love YOU fully you and just not a part of you. So, accept your partner the way he/she is. 

Don't try to bring changes in them for your own good. Yes you can tell them things if you think those things can bring a positive change in the other person. Nothing wrong in that. But there should be a way of telling. You should calmly tell your partner that buddy what you are doing can relle put you in trouble and that's it. And then don't expect that they gonna listen to you. As they are individuals. You can never force anybody to do something , you just can tell them.

This way make your life simpler, happier and worth living. Live and let live. Where there is love there is no force. Let your partner be him or her.

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" Live life to the utmost. Squeeze happiness from every single moment. So that you don't repent later that; THAT MOMENT PASSED AND YOU MISSED !!!"

Welcome to Life (Asylum)

"A- Way from Catch 22"- A paradox in which the attempt to escape makes escape impossible.

What life is? A life is a situation ,you cannot escape until unless the supreme power wants it. You cannot escape life yourself. So Life is a" catch 22 situation". You have to live life. So how about living it beautifully. 

Life is a series of dilemma. Since the time we become conscious about oneself, dilemma begins. What to do in life? With whom you should live your life? Who can be your friends? Which career is best for you? Whom to marry? How to lead a peaceful married life? And so on.... 

The sole purpose of this blog is to take you away from all the dilemmas that life is providing us. To find a way in the direction opposite to our dilemmas.


I want to present you an ASYLUM OF LIFE. Here we will ponder upon our dilemmas. We gonna beat all the dilemmas. Once we have beaten all confusions, we will enter the heaven - LIFE!!!

Some people just do it. Some people take thier time to think, analyse and apply. Some believe in hit and trial and some believe in reasoning. Who is better? and Why? We together will reach to the conclusion. 


We all our a family. We all have to support each other and we all will find a way out together. We all are humans and our religion is HUMANITY. Your worries, miseries, dilemmas are most welcome here.

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" Live life to the utmost. Squeeze happiness from every single moment. So that you don't repent later that; THAT MOMENT PASSED AND YOU MISSED !!!"