DILEMMA ABOUT FREEDOM

Dilemma about freedom

FREE- DOM- Is freedom free of safety, security, harassment for girls? Freedom is what every one needs. If someone is restricted, caged and stopped to follow one's will, one feels dead. Isn't it?? Free will will make you fly. It will make you fulfill all your dreams. It will help you grow beautifully inside out. Freedom gives you self confidence and positivity.

What role freedom plays in a relationship? Freedom in a relationship means SPACE. True and healthy relationship is the one where no one binds eachother instead where both of them Fly together.Constant questioning, Doubting, reporting, insecurity, lack of trust: these may lead to a suffering, a burdened relationship.

What wonders can freedom do in a family?Parents should give enough freedom to thier children if they want to show them the right path in life. My parents trust me blindly, actually I should not use the word blindly that may portray that I am at fault and making fool of my parents. They trust me totally. Now it sounds much better. :) I treat my parents as my best friends. Why???

Because they have given me my space. They listen to my problems and not shout and react. Instead give me the support that "yeah we are with you darling." They are very calm with me and thats the reason I feel free with them. Now I can never think of misusing the freedom they have given me. I'll always respect my morals and principles.

Now how can one misuse the freedom??? What too much of freedom can result into??? How to know one's own limits??? OK!!! now as I told you freedom means to do whatever one feels like doing. Do you think our heart always tell you to do the right thing? I think No,  heart makes you an emotional vampire. There should be a synchronization between your mind, heart and soul.

When three of them tell you something to do, JUST DO IT without giving it a second thought.When three of them are conflicting, do what your intuition, gut feeling or soul (whatever you call it) is advising you to do. You'll never be misguided. Thats how you will know your limits. To respect your limits means freedom. 

Now talk about freedom of girls in India and abroad. In Indian culture girls are the representative of the family "aan baan shaan" i.e. prestige. Why only girls are responsible for it?
If I'll tell my father that "daddy if you can allow my brother to go on a tour with his freinds, why cant you allow me?" What  he gonna tell me  "Dear you are a girl thats why."

Why is he being partial? And the biggest reason is : he cares. In India girls are not secured. And we have to understand this. In schools instead of PT, girls should be taught Twakando, judo karate and other self defense activities.

Whats the scene in abroad?? In western culture girls and boys are treated on same level. Parents leave them on thier own. They actually do whatever they feel like. They hardly have any limits. Still they feel depressed, sad and lonely. Why?? The reason is too much of freedom and lack of limits.

So we should have freedom in life but up to what extent totally depends on you and only you. So know your limits and you'll be flying High leaving all the worries back down there.

 Eye- Opening Quotes about FREEDOM

“The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off.”
― Gloria Steinem 

“Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.”
― Mahatma Gandhi 

“I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will.”
― Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre  

“I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do.”
― Robert A. Heinlein
 


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DILEMMA ABOUT GOD

Ok. So what is God? For some he is a supreme power, for some he is a creator, for some he is an ideal, for some he is immortal and like wise there are many beliefs about God.

Different mythologies define God differently. Many forms of God ,we guys are aware of. In India the basic reason of holidays is God. Isn't it???

Let me tell you my version of God. For me God  lies in GOOD. Simple and straight. When a person is good to himself and to others, he is a God.

Heaven, hell, devil, angel all resides on this planet earth. In fact all these reside in us.
The moment we feel bad about anything, we have entered the hell automatically. Negativity leads you to hell.

Killing is a crime. But killing Negativity is a boon for the society. I know being a social human being, to stay away from negativity is tough. But I'll tell you the way to get rid of it. All right!!! suppose a person is trying to give you a tough time say its your boss, colleague, relative, friend, family member or even stranger. What you simply have to do is keep calm at that moment. Just go silent look into his eyes. Don't loose the smile on your face. Feel good as you are the reason for eradicating some one's frustration. You are doing charity dude. Feel good about yourself. The other person will be stunned by the way you'll be behaving. And for sure he gonna feel guilty about what he did whether he admits it or not. But believe me Silence is far more stronger than words.

When ever you feel you are surrounded by negativity.Try to emit your moonlight. Show your madness then and there. You are a God. Every one is God. Keep it alive always.

The day you will realize that you have come alone on this earth and will bid the planet all alone, you got the mantra of life. In every religious book you must have read that every one has come alone and one has to leave this earth one fine day. Why they have mentioned that? The reason being we are a social being. We will build relationships. We will be attached to human race emotionally and physically. And we will  be sad when our loved one will be sad as we are attached to him. This is the basic difference between God and human. No one can make him sad. God knows that he has come alone and has to serve a purpose on this earth and will leave one day.

We take care of our body so much that we are neglecting our soul. Every one has to turn to ashes one day. What every one has is,  SOUL (GOOD). Body is just the covering of it. Without skin Human is the most ugly thing ever. Vultures will have their meal throughout. "And we are taking care of the gift wrap and not gift. "
Start caring about your soul. Start listening to your soul. Soul can only make of Aware. And the day you have become aware, you have become God.

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Welcome to Life (Asylum)

"A- Way from Catch 22"- A paradox in which the attempt to escape makes escape impossible.

What life is? A life is a situation ,you cannot escape until unless the supreme power wants it. You cannot escape life yourself. So Life is a" catch 22 situation". You have to live life. So how about living it beautifully. 

Life is a series of dilemma. Since the time we become conscious about oneself, dilemma begins. What to do in life? With whom you should live your life? Who can be your friends? Which career is best for you? Whom to marry? How to lead a peaceful married life? And so on.... 

The sole purpose of this blog is to take you away from all the dilemmas that life is providing us. To find a way in the direction opposite to our dilemmas.


I want to present you an ASYLUM OF LIFE. Here we will ponder upon our dilemmas. We gonna beat all the dilemmas. Once we have beaten all confusions, we will enter the heaven - LIFE!!!

Some people just do it. Some people take thier time to think, analyse and apply. Some believe in hit and trial and some believe in reasoning. Who is better? and Why? We together will reach to the conclusion. 


We all our a family. We all have to support each other and we all will find a way out together. We all are humans and our religion is HUMANITY. Your worries, miseries, dilemmas are most welcome here.

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" Live life to the utmost. Squeeze happiness from every single moment. So that you don't repent later that; THAT MOMENT PASSED AND YOU MISSED !!!"