DILEMMA ABOUT HAPPINESS

To have broaden lips and teeth visible means " A smile" for major people out there.

Does that mean a person carrying smile is happy? What is the measure of happiness? How can you you know if a person is really happy or just carrying smile?

Do the people who have achieved a lot at the young age are happy totally?

Or are the ones who are struggling to reach their set goals are unhappy totally?

I believe to me happiness is your mood. It can be to watch a cute smile on baby's face. It can be the moment when you play bowling and all of the pins get knocked down with the first ball of a frame.

It can be to be on a family holiday and reliving the old memories of childhood. It can be just to pack up bags when going to even a small town via Indian Railways.

It can be to find a greeting card from an old friend while cleaning your wardrobe.

It can be a one rupee note which is your first pocket money.

It can be just to walk on the terrace and seeing planes crossing overhead.

It is just to feel the breeze in the hair. It is to get clicked randomly at weird places.

It is to make funny faces in the mirror and laugh aloud on yourself.

So, the point being a person who has achieved success at the young age may have missed out to squeeze happiness from tiny things happening in day to day life. He/ she may have invested most of the time and money on his/her business leaving behind his/her family. To reach to that success he has lost many things on personal level. That is a sacrifice. You can't be happy always. To be happy and successful you need to sacrifice. I believe Sacrifice is the key to happiness.

My mantra to happiness would be to make tiny little things happening in day to day life a ray of happiness and keep working towards your targets in life. This way you can burst your stress and can have a balance between your personal and professional life.

YET ANOTHER DILEMMA ABOUT LIFE

I have come up with yet another dilemma about LIFE. Is life a drama? Are we just the actors of this drama?
Shakespeare has said many a times that Life is a drama and we are just puppets.Do you really think so?

When we are sitting in front of the 35 mm screen in the movie theater. And when some kind of emotional scene appears on the screen, tears starts rolling down your cheeks. When we watch some horror movie. We can't sleep that night. At night when there is a pin drop silence and if frog croaks, your heart starts throbbing. The white color pyjams hanging on a string outside would appear to be halloween. Strange but true we all start living the drama playing on the screen though we know there is nothing real about it.

And yet we say life is a drama. Yes it is until unless we get out of deep slumber.

If you believe that life is a drama. Then when some one would love a girl deeply, madly, crazily, for him, that girl would also become a dream, his love would also become a dream. He would say let me get my girl first and then I'll believe that yeah Life is a dream.
If you would believe that life is a drama. Then when some one want to make a big mansion would say that let me make my mansion then I can take it that yeah life is a dream. If some politician would believe that Life is a drama then he would say that let me become chief minister of the state then I can believe that yeah Life is a drama.

Life is a drama.Every one is a puppet. Nothing is constant. "Sab moh maya hai" and all these things are better suited for old people. Why? Because they have already lived life. So the point being until unless we'll have desires to fulfill life can't be a drama for us. The day we'll achieve everything we want, life will become a drama, a story with a happy ending. :) #dilemmasofpriyajain

DILEMMA ABOUT FAITH

Faith??? Does it grow with time? Does it shrink with distance? Should it exist? And here I am referring to the faith in the other person.

What I used to believe is faith grows steadily with each day you spent time with your loved ones. They start knowing you and unknowingly develop faith in you. I have seen couples who were there with each other for 8-9 years in a beautiful love relationship and finally got married. And to my utter shock they got separated. Why??? Because they lack faith in each other. So, my belief turned out into a myth. Faith is not directly proportional to time.

Talk about distances. The closer you live, the closer your hearts are and stronger is the faith. But long distance relationships do exist and believe me they have stronger faith in each other as compared to the ones who live nearby. Why??? As to have a peaceful, true and everlasting relationship faith is the most vital ingredient. 

So what defines faith? And how to develop it? Faith in some one means no complaints about anything the other person do as you have faith in him/her that there has to be a reason behind what he/she does and that has to be good for both the people. Faith means understanding. Faith means reading each other eyes. Faith means silence. Faith means prayer. Faith means pious. 

How to develop faith? Simple just be yourself. Be loyal. Don’t be afraid of speaking the truth. Share what is within. And have faith in the other person that he/she’ll understand. Faith has to be two- way. It is all about give and take. If you can’t get it in return, you’ll start losing it for the other person.

So be raw, be you, be true and develop it. 

So all of you there who deal with faith issues in a relationship open your eyes and see what you have. Treasure what you have. Analyzing, calculating and over thinking can give you profits in your businesses but will turn you into a looser if you take all these into consideration while building a relationship. Love can never be tested. It simply flows. Flow with it and cover the beautiful journey together. (tweet- worthy)

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DILEMMA ABOUT TIME

Let it go. Let it move away. Let it follow its direction. You cannot get hold of anyone in life. Not time. Not people and not circumstances. All of them will move. Nothing remains stagnant and that is what life is. 

People come in your life- gives you memories to cherish lifelong, lessons unlimited, make you understand who you are, some will be your inspiration, some will be your power and some will be the reasons for your successful in way or the other. 

But no one will stick with you forever. One has to leave. Everyone has got a role to play in your life. The day role is going to over, person has to leave.  But you’ll not be empty handed. You’ll be having his/her words always with you ringing in your head.

Talk about time and circumstances. You are happy- you are enjoying- you are shopping- you are hanging out- you are travelling- you are back to work- you are back to daily routine- Someone passes away- you are sad- you are broken- you have lost the job- you are disappointed- you are losing hope- you got a chance once again- you got a job- you got a routine- you are back to normal. 

Time can never remain the same. It tests you. But you’ll always pass the test as time has to pass.

So the bottom line is- Never get hold of things in life. The more you want to hold them, the more you’ll be suffering when they’ll leave you. Sand in your hand will leave your grip and escape. If water becomes stagnant, it’ll stink badly. The same way your life will stink if situations will remain constant.

Moral of the story is - Nothing lasts forever. Like the trees in autumn, you too must learn to shed your attachments and start afresh.

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DILEMMA ABOUT RESPECT

Have you ever pondered upon where do this RESPECT arises???? Who deserves it???? What is the thing that made you earn it???? Earn it I repeat. Yeah I got my answer even Respect is the attribute one has to earn.

You are talented, in fact multi-talented but couldn't earn out of it. You are a genius but opportunity is not knocking your door. You are eligible. You are capable. You have the caliber but your stars are not on your side. Your time is not correct. Do you think people will respect you? Forget about people your own family will respect you? (Hahaha, what are you thinking?) The answer is at one time or the other they'll burst and let you know that they don't respect you for not earning.

Do you think they sympathize with your situation? Yes they do. Sympathizing itself means a disrespect. To sympathize with a situation is to feel helpless, hopeless, pessimist. Its of no use. What one needs is Support- emotional and spiritual. Why your own loved ones lack in giving you that?

The simple and straight answer is they have spent on you and they want the return. They have spent not just money but their hard work, their time, their sincerity, their will and the last thing they want is to see you successful. When they see you loosing thy cant take it. They become frustrated and burst out. Is it their love? Yes it is they have a right to speak their heart out in front of you. Isn't it?

And when ever you feel you are disrespected by your loved ones or by the person least expected, always thank him or her for giving you the challenge to fight. For giving you the chance to prove yourself. Don't be disheartened, depressed and helpless. Just keep faith in yourself, your patience, your sincerity, your will power. You may take time to reach your dream. But the truth is time has to pass. It'll pass.
Till the time you don't deserve a thing, it'll not reach you. So in case you are not getting anything just put lil more effort and you will be bang on there. Always remember even airplane has to reach take off speed for that it rolls on runways before getting airborne. So keep rolling until you build the take off speed and soon you'll lift off. :) (tweet- worthy)

To walk a rosy path and reach your destination can never give you pleasure. The pleasure is in walking stony thorny burning path. The adventure lies in making your own path, finding unusual ways to reach your destination. And when finally you reach it there can be no feeling matchable to that.

So my friends who so ever feel he/she is suffering by not getting what they want, kindly stop feeling helpless and suffered. The time, the situation and your people are making you strong like iron. You are turning out to be a soldier, a steel man, UNBREAKABLE. An d I am proud to be an UNBREAKABLE. Keep chanting that "No one can break me, I am strong enough to fight the world. The power lies in me. I am my HERO." ( tweet- worthy)
Believe me, these lines will bring you back to the senses.These will sync you back with the life.

DILEMMA ABOUT FREEDOM

Dilemma about freedom

FREE- DOM- Is freedom free of safety, security, harassment for girls? Freedom is what every one needs. If someone is restricted, caged and stopped to follow one's will, one feels dead. Isn't it?? Free will will make you fly. It will make you fulfill all your dreams. It will help you grow beautifully inside out. Freedom gives you self confidence and positivity.

What role freedom plays in a relationship? Freedom in a relationship means SPACE. True and healthy relationship is the one where no one binds eachother instead where both of them Fly together.Constant questioning, Doubting, reporting, insecurity, lack of trust: these may lead to a suffering, a burdened relationship.

What wonders can freedom do in a family?Parents should give enough freedom to thier children if they want to show them the right path in life. My parents trust me blindly, actually I should not use the word blindly that may portray that I am at fault and making fool of my parents. They trust me totally. Now it sounds much better. :) I treat my parents as my best friends. Why???

Because they have given me my space. They listen to my problems and not shout and react. Instead give me the support that "yeah we are with you darling." They are very calm with me and thats the reason I feel free with them. Now I can never think of misusing the freedom they have given me. I'll always respect my morals and principles.

Now how can one misuse the freedom??? What too much of freedom can result into??? How to know one's own limits??? OK!!! now as I told you freedom means to do whatever one feels like doing. Do you think our heart always tell you to do the right thing? I think No,  heart makes you an emotional vampire. There should be a synchronization between your mind, heart and soul.

When three of them tell you something to do, JUST DO IT without giving it a second thought.When three of them are conflicting, do what your intuition, gut feeling or soul (whatever you call it) is advising you to do. You'll never be misguided. Thats how you will know your limits. To respect your limits means freedom. 

Now talk about freedom of girls in India and abroad. In Indian culture girls are the representative of the family "aan baan shaan" i.e. prestige. Why only girls are responsible for it?
If I'll tell my father that "daddy if you can allow my brother to go on a tour with his freinds, why cant you allow me?" What  he gonna tell me  "Dear you are a girl thats why."

Why is he being partial? And the biggest reason is : he cares. In India girls are not secured. And we have to understand this. In schools instead of PT, girls should be taught Twakando, judo karate and other self defense activities.

Whats the scene in abroad?? In western culture girls and boys are treated on same level. Parents leave them on thier own. They actually do whatever they feel like. They hardly have any limits. Still they feel depressed, sad and lonely. Why?? The reason is too much of freedom and lack of limits.

So we should have freedom in life but up to what extent totally depends on you and only you. So know your limits and you'll be flying High leaving all the worries back down there.

 Eye- Opening Quotes about FREEDOM

“The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off.”
― Gloria Steinem 

“Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.”
― Mahatma Gandhi 

“I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will.”
― Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre  

“I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do.”
― Robert A. Heinlein
 


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DILEMMA ABOUT EXPECTATION

Expect-tation meaning by Collin's dictionary is a strong belief that something will happen or be the case.To have strong belief is good. But to crave for the future is bad. Confused!!! To have faith in your destiny is a good thing as life is a series of leaps of faith. Faith is the antidote of fear. But as and when you start expecting things, faith becomes a disease as it 'll give rise to fear.

So the point here I would like to make is Have faith in yourself but never expect anything out of it. Keep doing your work sincerely. Perform the task given to you by the Uni-verse. That is in your hands but time is not in your hands.

Destiny is not in your hands. You are the creation and Creator is looking after the time and destiny. Let him perform his tasks. You should concentrate on your activities.

Now another discussion about expectation is in terms of relationships. Should we expect from our partners, parents, friends and all our near and dear ones. My answer is you should not. You must be wondering, how come we should not expect from the close people. Then what is the use of being close to them? This question itself contains the answer- USE. When we love we cant think of using the other person.

If a person is loving, caring, understanding, supportive to you. It doesn't mean you start expecting things from him. He loves you selflessly. And for me expectation is all about selfishness.

The root cause of misunderstanding, clashes between loved ones is EXPECTATIONS. The day you'll stop expecting from your partner and start loving him or her the way he/she is, you'll enter the heaven.

So should we expect or not? Yes you should expect but just from yourself. Expect things out of you. That will give spirit to move on, to walk forward with grace, to step into the unknown. But the key here is as excess of everything is bad. Dont expect too much. And how will you know you are crossing the limits. Simple, every one knows one's potential. So expect in proportion of your potential. If you want to expect more, increase your potential.

So keep going, keep moving, keep working towards your goals. Your task is moving.

Eye- Opening Quotes about EXPECTATIONS

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.” 
― Donald Miller

“I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.” 
― Bruce Lee

“It takes three to make love, not two: you, your spouse, and God. Without God people only succeed in bringing out the worst in one another. Lovers who have nothing else to do but love each other soon find there is nothing else. Without a central loyalty life is unfinished.” 
― Fulton J. Sheen

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DILEMMA ABOUT FEAR

OK. So what is fear according to you? For me fear is nothing but a lack of sense of security, lack of faith, lack of hope, lack of self love. Fear is a lack.

So why one is afraid? The root reason behind the fear is losing. Be it losing love, losing a match, losing a game, loosing a friend, losing money. Whenever you feel like a loser, it means you are surrounded by fear.

Can fear be good in any way? My answer is yes. It keeps you going. If one is not afraid of anything, he can never value that thing. He'll be taking it for granted. He'll be careless towards it. And fear of losing will not affect him. So yes lil fear is good.

But too much anything is bad. And so is the case with fear. You'll lose hope and courage if you are way too afraid. You'll keep doubting your destiny and you'll end up no where. The juice of life is still left for such people to taste.

So just have lil fear in yourself and just run behind your dreams. Keep working towards them. And whenever you are afraid, just give it a thought : " Why you dreamt of such thing? What you gonna do when you'll finally reach your destination? And why you thought you have that potential to reach there?" And half the work is done.

Whenever you lose hope in life think about your achievements in life. Achievements need not to be big. For me bringing happiness on people's face is an achievement. Just ponder on "what defines your achievement?"

Whenever you feel like you gonna lose a friend or love partner. First analyse where you went wrong. And if the answer is you gave your 100 percent and still it didn't work out. Just say it in your mind that the other person is unlucky to not have you in his life. Always have that attitude in life. This is the way to reach the right person in life.


So the remedy to fear is Self- Trust and Self- Love. So people out there keep loving yourself. Have faith in yourself and you'll be there BANG ON!!!

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DILEMMA ABOUT LOVE

So valentine week is here. Love is in the air. So lets gather around and talk about Love.

Sometimes I feel love can really make you weak, tensed and lost. As when you love someone and they are away from you, you are always tensed about them. You always crave to meet them, to talk to them but there comes many situations which will try to separate you from your loved ones be it distance, time or misunderstanding.

Sometimes I feel If there would be no love, how would one can survive. No reason to live for. No one to care about. No longing for someone. Bahhhhhhhhhhh boring.

But just think if we guys start loving ourselves. Start caring about ourselves. Try to run behind our dreams. Yeah sure it will give us immense happiness. But you know what when you'll see your loved one happy faces just because you achieved something.. Believe me you will feel nothing better than that.

What I have learnt is excess of everything is bad. Even love can make you crippled if you keep loving others and not yourself. The day you will start loving yourself, there will be no look back.

The day you'll fall for yourself, it'll be the day you'll rise for others. Confusing right??? Ok i'll make it simpler for you. The fact is when you are happy with yourself then only you can spread love. To love somebody first you have to love yourself.

The day you'll start loving yourself truly, you'll never ever be falling in a ditch. You'll never be following the wrong path.The path of love, goodness, roses will open for you to step forward. And you'll see the drastic change in your environment. People will start loving you immensely.They will look forward to you. You'll become their ideal. They will learn the way of living from you.

So the key to all sufferings is SELF-LOVE.
Love yourself, be good to yourself. Be the person you can fall in love with and there you go. Bang On!!!

You gonna make your life beautiful by doing so. No fear, no worry, no misery, no suffering, any kinda negativity will surrender in front of you. Victory will be all yours. You are abundant. Just remember that. You are not alone. You have soul- your best friend in you. Wake it up before its too late.

Our body is like a factory. And our soul is a manager.If manager gives responsibilities to all the labors and becomes careless. What happens??? The factory gonna shut down one day. The very same way if we give our life to our brain and heart which are nothing but labors. We gonna be facing the loss. Whom we should try to listen to. And the answer is SOUL.

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DILEMMA ABOUT "MOVING ON"

When people tell you to move on, what do they actually mean. Should you simply forget everything that occurred in past? Should you simply detach yourself from your past? How could one do that? People should say things which they themselves can do. Else whatever they are saying is making no sense.

Moving On means to start living once again. To start caring about oneself once again. To be on the road back to normal. To laugh aloud when alone even though your throat is choked. To sing aloud in shower. To feel the nature. To give chance to others to get closer to you. To keep doors open to let in the happiness. Yeah this is my definition of moving on.

For say if you have lost your beloved. But if you are told not to remember him, not cry for him, not to crave for him, not to remember the beautiful times you spend with him. Excuse me you are a human being and that too a normal human being and not a person with memory loss. This taruma will be there with you till your last breathe.

You must be wishing right now that "God please erase my memory and then I'll be all right." Is this possible? Noooo. 

So I believe Moving On means to be happy and calm where ever you are, with whomsoever you are, in what ever conditions you are. As nothing remains constant. Time changes, circumstance changes, outlook for life changes, what doesn't change is your soul. I wanna be successful but the most important thing is I wanna be a person I can fall in love with.

Moving on comes with trying. As nothing can be done without giving it a try. For every thing to do in life you need to take a leap of faith. Life is a path made of leaps of faith itself. No matter what happens in life you should never stop trying.The day you have stopped doing that you are giving a call to more sufferings. you will only suffer when you want that. Start feeling happy about what you have and you'll attract more happiness. So the biggest way out of moving on is KEEP TRYING.  

A never give up attitude in life always keep you alive.If you cant get up in the worst then you'll never be able to hold the best.If you are loosing hope and courage now you are closing your doors for the future reasons of merry- making.Time will never reamin the same. Bad times will be leaded by the good times. And if you'll not have bad times you can never value good times. So bad is the new good. 

Look back over the last 10 years of your life. Make a list of the worst things that happened to you. Look at your fears. Your sadness. Your rock bottoms.

Then, realize that even though you went through ALL of THAT, you made it to today. Use this as evidence of how strong you are, and how Loving The Universe really is. And then, with this new evidence, perhaps you will have even more faith and desire to march with your head held high and your chest proud into the unknown.Why? Because when you look back at your life 10 years from then, you will feel the same way then also and that is... that no matter what happened... you made it.

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DILEMMA ABOUT REINCARNATION

Have you ever pondered upon the weird connection we have with strangers ? When we travel in public transport or to a new place or even when we enter in new class, school, company where we don't know anybody around us; which force lets us to talk to a specific person. Why we feel like smiling looking into eyes of a complete unknown person?? Why it happens sometimes that even the presence of unknown person disturbs you, makes you uneasy and you yourself are not aware of it.

Has it ever happened with you that some incident is occurring and back in your mind it clicks that the same thing has happened with me before. This is something familiar happening but you can't restore when where how it happened. Right ??

We meet so many people in our lifetime but we connect to very few. In fact when I talked to Vju (my soul mate) for the very first time, I never knew what gonna happen next. After an year we guys again came in contact. Then again we stopped talking without any reason. And then suddenly after 3 years he bumped into my life. And believe me we guys amazed each other each day we were together. Our thinking process, timing, choices and dreams every little thing was same. Even the way of reaction was same. We always used to get surprised that how is this possible for two people to be similar to that extent. But we never had answer to this.

But now I think all these strong connections have some solid reason behind them. We take birth, develop relations with people, fight, envy, sometimes face failure, sometimes face miseries, pain and sometimes we celebrate victory and so on.... At times we spend our whole life but we cannot fulfill all our desires. We can't complete the task given to us by the God. It remains incomplete. Throughout life we keep learning. Its an ongoing process. But we do commit mistakes mid way.

After we die some energy say it soul releases our body and now it needs space to exist. It is injected back again in some one. This time this person will not commit the same mistakes he did in past lifetime and will again try to fulfill his incomplete desires. This will keep on going until unless you stop desiring. The day a person stops desiring or a person who fulfilled all his desires in a given time frame, he can never be reborn. He becomes immortal. 

I believe to live our dreams. To open up our restaurant. To love myself. Yeah, you'll be back and I'll wait for you.

Has it ever happened with you? Have you lost your true love? Do you believe he/she will be back? Have you gained a person you lost in this lifetime? Do you believe in Reincarnation? What is your story?

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" Live life to the utmost. Squeeze happiness from every single moment. So that you don't repent later that; THAT MOMENT PASSED AND YOU MISSED !!!"

DILEMMA ABOUT GOD

Ok. So what is God? For some he is a supreme power, for some he is a creator, for some he is an ideal, for some he is immortal and like wise there are many beliefs about God.

Different mythologies define God differently. Many forms of God ,we guys are aware of. In India the basic reason of holidays is God. Isn't it???

Let me tell you my version of God. For me God  lies in GOOD. Simple and straight. When a person is good to himself and to others, he is a God.

Heaven, hell, devil, angel all resides on this planet earth. In fact all these reside in us.
The moment we feel bad about anything, we have entered the hell automatically. Negativity leads you to hell.

Killing is a crime. But killing Negativity is a boon for the society. I know being a social human being, to stay away from negativity is tough. But I'll tell you the way to get rid of it. All right!!! suppose a person is trying to give you a tough time say its your boss, colleague, relative, friend, family member or even stranger. What you simply have to do is keep calm at that moment. Just go silent look into his eyes. Don't loose the smile on your face. Feel good as you are the reason for eradicating some one's frustration. You are doing charity dude. Feel good about yourself. The other person will be stunned by the way you'll be behaving. And for sure he gonna feel guilty about what he did whether he admits it or not. But believe me Silence is far more stronger than words.

When ever you feel you are surrounded by negativity.Try to emit your moonlight. Show your madness then and there. You are a God. Every one is God. Keep it alive always.

The day you will realize that you have come alone on this earth and will bid the planet all alone, you got the mantra of life. In every religious book you must have read that every one has come alone and one has to leave this earth one fine day. Why they have mentioned that? The reason being we are a social being. We will build relationships. We will be attached to human race emotionally and physically. And we will  be sad when our loved one will be sad as we are attached to him. This is the basic difference between God and human. No one can make him sad. God knows that he has come alone and has to serve a purpose on this earth and will leave one day.

We take care of our body so much that we are neglecting our soul. Every one has to turn to ashes one day. What every one has is,  SOUL (GOOD). Body is just the covering of it. Without skin Human is the most ugly thing ever. Vultures will have their meal throughout. "And we are taking care of the gift wrap and not gift. "
Start caring about your soul. Start listening to your soul. Soul can only make of Aware. And the day you have become aware, you have become God.

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" Live life to the utmost. Squeeze happiness from every single moment. So that you don't repent later that; THAT MOMENT PASSED AND YOU MISSED !!!"

DILEMMA ABOUT COMPROMISE

I have seen many people saying that life is all about comprise whether you accept it or not. And I strongly disagree that. We are not here to compromise. We have a purpose and that is why we are sent here. 
See what we do our whole lives and especially woman. When a baby is born he doesn't know who he is. He gets his identity from his parents. He is sent to temple, mosque, synagogue, monastery and like that he gets his religion. 

Eventually he starts learning about relations, life, hardships,victory, failure and thick and thins of life. He starts thinking about his own family members and starts sacrificing his dreams for his family. Which in my view is the blunder he is doing. One should never kill his dreams as this will not give him happiness and that in turn will not make his loved ones happy. At times you feel like I dream a lot more than my capability. You doubt yourself, again you are committing one more mistake. To fulfill all your dreams you may take time, you may disappoint your loved ones for a while but believe when you reach your goal they will be more than happy. They stop you from those things which in their view give you pain. They are impatient. But you should not be. 

Now lets gather around and talk about love relationships. A guy likes a gal and the gal likes a guy. Perfect. They are certain that they can live with each other forever. Awesome and simple Isn't it?? Now how after certain period of time you can think about the same person that he she has changed over time and I don't feel the same for her or him. I think if I'll be with him or her I am gonna compromise throughout my life. She is the same gal and he is the same guy. What must have happened???

It means they became certain about each other just too fast. That s where patience and time plays a very important role in every aspect of your life. 
Compromise should not come in any relation that is what I feel. You both should be free birds while being in a relationship. If he/ she loves you it simply means yes they love YOU fully you and just not a part of you. So, accept your partner the way he/she is. 

Don't try to bring changes in them for your own good. Yes you can tell them things if you think those things can bring a positive change in the other person. Nothing wrong in that. But there should be a way of telling. You should calmly tell your partner that buddy what you are doing can relle put you in trouble and that's it. And then don't expect that they gonna listen to you. As they are individuals. You can never force anybody to do something , you just can tell them.

This way make your life simpler, happier and worth living. Live and let live. Where there is love there is no force. Let your partner be him or her.

As nothing can happen without taking action at the right time so go ahead and leave comment below. I thrive in the feedback and this is the place where you can get support.

So, Write to me to get a right way out  ;)

" Live life to the utmost. Squeeze happiness from every single moment. So that you don't repent later that; THAT MOMENT PASSED AND YOU MISSED !!!"

Welcome to Life (Asylum)

"A- Way from Catch 22"- A paradox in which the attempt to escape makes escape impossible.

What life is? A life is a situation ,you cannot escape until unless the supreme power wants it. You cannot escape life yourself. So Life is a" catch 22 situation". You have to live life. So how about living it beautifully. 

Life is a series of dilemma. Since the time we become conscious about oneself, dilemma begins. What to do in life? With whom you should live your life? Who can be your friends? Which career is best for you? Whom to marry? How to lead a peaceful married life? And so on.... 

The sole purpose of this blog is to take you away from all the dilemmas that life is providing us. To find a way in the direction opposite to our dilemmas.


I want to present you an ASYLUM OF LIFE. Here we will ponder upon our dilemmas. We gonna beat all the dilemmas. Once we have beaten all confusions, we will enter the heaven - LIFE!!!

Some people just do it. Some people take thier time to think, analyse and apply. Some believe in hit and trial and some believe in reasoning. Who is better? and Why? We together will reach to the conclusion. 


We all our a family. We all have to support each other and we all will find a way out together. We all are humans and our religion is HUMANITY. Your worries, miseries, dilemmas are most welcome here.

As nothing can happen without taking action at the right time so go ahead and leave a comment below. I thrive in the feedback and this is the place where you can get support.

So, Write to me to get a right way out  ;)

" Live life to the utmost. Squeeze happiness from every single moment. So that you don't repent later that; THAT MOMENT PASSED AND YOU MISSED !!!"