DILEMMA ABOUT TIME

Let it go. Let it move away. Let it follow its direction. You cannot get hold of anyone in life. Not time. Not people and not circumstances. All of them will move. Nothing remains stagnant and that is what life is. 

People come in your life- gives you memories to cherish lifelong, lessons unlimited, make you understand who you are, some will be your inspiration, some will be your power and some will be the reasons for your successful in way or the other. 

But no one will stick with you forever. One has to leave. Everyone has got a role to play in your life. The day role is going to over, person has to leave.  But you’ll not be empty handed. You’ll be having his/her words always with you ringing in your head.

Talk about time and circumstances. You are happy- you are enjoying- you are shopping- you are hanging out- you are travelling- you are back to work- you are back to daily routine- Someone passes away- you are sad- you are broken- you have lost the job- you are disappointed- you are losing hope- you got a chance once again- you got a job- you got a routine- you are back to normal. 

Time can never remain the same. It tests you. But you’ll always pass the test as time has to pass.

So the bottom line is- Never get hold of things in life. The more you want to hold them, the more you’ll be suffering when they’ll leave you. Sand in your hand will leave your grip and escape. If water becomes stagnant, it’ll stink badly. The same way your life will stink if situations will remain constant.

Moral of the story is - Nothing lasts forever. Like the trees in autumn, you too must learn to shed your attachments and start afresh.

As nothing can happen without taking action at the right time so go ahead and leave a comment below. I thrive in the feedback and this is the place where you can get support.

So, Write to me to get a right way out  ;)

DILEMMA ABOUT EXPECTATION

Expect-tation meaning by Collin's dictionary is a strong belief that something will happen or be the case.To have strong belief is good. But to crave for the future is bad. Confused!!! To have faith in your destiny is a good thing as life is a series of leaps of faith. Faith is the antidote of fear. But as and when you start expecting things, faith becomes a disease as it 'll give rise to fear.

So the point here I would like to make is Have faith in yourself but never expect anything out of it. Keep doing your work sincerely. Perform the task given to you by the Uni-verse. That is in your hands but time is not in your hands.

Destiny is not in your hands. You are the creation and Creator is looking after the time and destiny. Let him perform his tasks. You should concentrate on your activities.

Now another discussion about expectation is in terms of relationships. Should we expect from our partners, parents, friends and all our near and dear ones. My answer is you should not. You must be wondering, how come we should not expect from the close people. Then what is the use of being close to them? This question itself contains the answer- USE. When we love we cant think of using the other person.

If a person is loving, caring, understanding, supportive to you. It doesn't mean you start expecting things from him. He loves you selflessly. And for me expectation is all about selfishness.

The root cause of misunderstanding, clashes between loved ones is EXPECTATIONS. The day you'll stop expecting from your partner and start loving him or her the way he/she is, you'll enter the heaven.

So should we expect or not? Yes you should expect but just from yourself. Expect things out of you. That will give spirit to move on, to walk forward with grace, to step into the unknown. But the key here is as excess of everything is bad. Dont expect too much. And how will you know you are crossing the limits. Simple, every one knows one's potential. So expect in proportion of your potential. If you want to expect more, increase your potential.

So keep going, keep moving, keep working towards your goals. Your task is moving.

Eye- Opening Quotes about EXPECTATIONS

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.” 
― Donald Miller

“I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.” 
― Bruce Lee

“It takes three to make love, not two: you, your spouse, and God. Without God people only succeed in bringing out the worst in one another. Lovers who have nothing else to do but love each other soon find there is nothing else. Without a central loyalty life is unfinished.” 
― Fulton J. Sheen

As nothing can happen without taking action at the right time so go ahead and leave a comment below. I thrive in the feedback and this is the place where you can get support.
So, Write to me to get a right way out  ;)