DILEMMA ABOUT HAPPINESS

To have broaden lips and teeth visible means " A smile" for major people out there.

Does that mean a person carrying smile is happy? What is the measure of happiness? How can you you know if a person is really happy or just carrying smile?

Do the people who have achieved a lot at the young age are happy totally?

Or are the ones who are struggling to reach their set goals are unhappy totally?

I believe to me happiness is your mood. It can be to watch a cute smile on baby's face. It can be the moment when you play bowling and all of the pins get knocked down with the first ball of a frame.

It can be to be on a family holiday and reliving the old memories of childhood. It can be just to pack up bags when going to even a small town via Indian Railways.

It can be to find a greeting card from an old friend while cleaning your wardrobe.

It can be a one rupee note which is your first pocket money.

It can be just to walk on the terrace and seeing planes crossing overhead.

It is just to feel the breeze in the hair. It is to get clicked randomly at weird places.

It is to make funny faces in the mirror and laugh aloud on yourself.

So, the point being a person who has achieved success at the young age may have missed out to squeeze happiness from tiny things happening in day to day life. He/ she may have invested most of the time and money on his/her business leaving behind his/her family. To reach to that success he has lost many things on personal level. That is a sacrifice. You can't be happy always. To be happy and successful you need to sacrifice. I believe Sacrifice is the key to happiness.

My mantra to happiness would be to make tiny little things happening in day to day life a ray of happiness and keep working towards your targets in life. This way you can burst your stress and can have a balance between your personal and professional life.

YET ANOTHER DILEMMA ABOUT LIFE

I have come up with yet another dilemma about LIFE. Is life a drama? Are we just the actors of this drama?
Shakespeare has said many a times that Life is a drama and we are just puppets.Do you really think so?

When we are sitting in front of the 35 mm screen in the movie theater. And when some kind of emotional scene appears on the screen, tears starts rolling down your cheeks. When we watch some horror movie. We can't sleep that night. At night when there is a pin drop silence and if frog croaks, your heart starts throbbing. The white color pyjams hanging on a string outside would appear to be halloween. Strange but true we all start living the drama playing on the screen though we know there is nothing real about it.

And yet we say life is a drama. Yes it is until unless we get out of deep slumber.

If you believe that life is a drama. Then when some one would love a girl deeply, madly, crazily, for him, that girl would also become a dream, his love would also become a dream. He would say let me get my girl first and then I'll believe that yeah Life is a dream.
If you would believe that life is a drama. Then when some one want to make a big mansion would say that let me make my mansion then I can take it that yeah life is a dream. If some politician would believe that Life is a drama then he would say that let me become chief minister of the state then I can believe that yeah Life is a drama.

Life is a drama.Every one is a puppet. Nothing is constant. "Sab moh maya hai" and all these things are better suited for old people. Why? Because they have already lived life. So the point being until unless we'll have desires to fulfill life can't be a drama for us. The day we'll achieve everything we want, life will become a drama, a story with a happy ending. :) #dilemmasofpriyajain