DILEMMA ABOUT HAPPINESS

To have broaden lips and teeth visible means " A smile" for major people out there.

Does that mean a person carrying smile is happy? What is the measure of happiness? How can you you know if a person is really happy or just carrying smile?

Do the people who have achieved a lot at the young age are happy totally?

Or are the ones who are struggling to reach their set goals are unhappy totally?

I believe to me happiness is your mood. It can be to watch a cute smile on baby's face. It can be the moment when you play bowling and all of the pins get knocked down with the first ball of a frame.

It can be to be on a family holiday and reliving the old memories of childhood. It can be just to pack up bags when going to even a small town via Indian Railways.

It can be to find a greeting card from an old friend while cleaning your wardrobe.

It can be a one rupee note which is your first pocket money.

It can be just to walk on the terrace and seeing planes crossing overhead.

It is just to feel the breeze in the hair. It is to get clicked randomly at weird places.

It is to make funny faces in the mirror and laugh aloud on yourself.

So, the point being a person who has achieved success at the young age may have missed out to squeeze happiness from tiny things happening in day to day life. He/ she may have invested most of the time and money on his/her business leaving behind his/her family. To reach to that success he has lost many things on personal level. That is a sacrifice. You can't be happy always. To be happy and successful you need to sacrifice. I believe Sacrifice is the key to happiness.

My mantra to happiness would be to make tiny little things happening in day to day life a ray of happiness and keep working towards your targets in life. This way you can burst your stress and can have a balance between your personal and professional life.

DILEMMA ABOUT RESPECT

Have you ever pondered upon where do this RESPECT arises???? Who deserves it???? What is the thing that made you earn it???? Earn it I repeat. Yeah I got my answer even Respect is the attribute one has to earn.

You are talented, in fact multi-talented but couldn't earn out of it. You are a genius but opportunity is not knocking your door. You are eligible. You are capable. You have the caliber but your stars are not on your side. Your time is not correct. Do you think people will respect you? Forget about people your own family will respect you? (Hahaha, what are you thinking?) The answer is at one time or the other they'll burst and let you know that they don't respect you for not earning.

Do you think they sympathize with your situation? Yes they do. Sympathizing itself means a disrespect. To sympathize with a situation is to feel helpless, hopeless, pessimist. Its of no use. What one needs is Support- emotional and spiritual. Why your own loved ones lack in giving you that?

The simple and straight answer is they have spent on you and they want the return. They have spent not just money but their hard work, their time, their sincerity, their will and the last thing they want is to see you successful. When they see you loosing thy cant take it. They become frustrated and burst out. Is it their love? Yes it is they have a right to speak their heart out in front of you. Isn't it?

And when ever you feel you are disrespected by your loved ones or by the person least expected, always thank him or her for giving you the challenge to fight. For giving you the chance to prove yourself. Don't be disheartened, depressed and helpless. Just keep faith in yourself, your patience, your sincerity, your will power. You may take time to reach your dream. But the truth is time has to pass. It'll pass.
Till the time you don't deserve a thing, it'll not reach you. So in case you are not getting anything just put lil more effort and you will be bang on there. Always remember even airplane has to reach take off speed for that it rolls on runways before getting airborne. So keep rolling until you build the take off speed and soon you'll lift off. :) (tweet- worthy)

To walk a rosy path and reach your destination can never give you pleasure. The pleasure is in walking stony thorny burning path. The adventure lies in making your own path, finding unusual ways to reach your destination. And when finally you reach it there can be no feeling matchable to that.

So my friends who so ever feel he/she is suffering by not getting what they want, kindly stop feeling helpless and suffered. The time, the situation and your people are making you strong like iron. You are turning out to be a soldier, a steel man, UNBREAKABLE. An d I am proud to be an UNBREAKABLE. Keep chanting that "No one can break me, I am strong enough to fight the world. The power lies in me. I am my HERO." ( tweet- worthy)
Believe me, these lines will bring you back to the senses.These will sync you back with the life.

DILEMMA ABOUT "MOVING ON"

When people tell you to move on, what do they actually mean. Should you simply forget everything that occurred in past? Should you simply detach yourself from your past? How could one do that? People should say things which they themselves can do. Else whatever they are saying is making no sense.

Moving On means to start living once again. To start caring about oneself once again. To be on the road back to normal. To laugh aloud when alone even though your throat is choked. To sing aloud in shower. To feel the nature. To give chance to others to get closer to you. To keep doors open to let in the happiness. Yeah this is my definition of moving on.

For say if you have lost your beloved. But if you are told not to remember him, not cry for him, not to crave for him, not to remember the beautiful times you spend with him. Excuse me you are a human being and that too a normal human being and not a person with memory loss. This taruma will be there with you till your last breathe.

You must be wishing right now that "God please erase my memory and then I'll be all right." Is this possible? Noooo. 

So I believe Moving On means to be happy and calm where ever you are, with whomsoever you are, in what ever conditions you are. As nothing remains constant. Time changes, circumstance changes, outlook for life changes, what doesn't change is your soul. I wanna be successful but the most important thing is I wanna be a person I can fall in love with.

Moving on comes with trying. As nothing can be done without giving it a try. For every thing to do in life you need to take a leap of faith. Life is a path made of leaps of faith itself. No matter what happens in life you should never stop trying.The day you have stopped doing that you are giving a call to more sufferings. you will only suffer when you want that. Start feeling happy about what you have and you'll attract more happiness. So the biggest way out of moving on is KEEP TRYING.  

A never give up attitude in life always keep you alive.If you cant get up in the worst then you'll never be able to hold the best.If you are loosing hope and courage now you are closing your doors for the future reasons of merry- making.Time will never reamin the same. Bad times will be leaded by the good times. And if you'll not have bad times you can never value good times. So bad is the new good. 

Look back over the last 10 years of your life. Make a list of the worst things that happened to you. Look at your fears. Your sadness. Your rock bottoms.

Then, realize that even though you went through ALL of THAT, you made it to today. Use this as evidence of how strong you are, and how Loving The Universe really is. And then, with this new evidence, perhaps you will have even more faith and desire to march with your head held high and your chest proud into the unknown.Why? Because when you look back at your life 10 years from then, you will feel the same way then also and that is... that no matter what happened... you made it.

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