DILEMMA ABOUT RESPECT

Have you ever pondered upon where do this RESPECT arises???? Who deserves it???? What is the thing that made you earn it???? Earn it I repeat. Yeah I got my answer even Respect is the attribute one has to earn.

You are talented, in fact multi-talented but couldn't earn out of it. You are a genius but opportunity is not knocking your door. You are eligible. You are capable. You have the caliber but your stars are not on your side. Your time is not correct. Do you think people will respect you? Forget about people your own family will respect you? (Hahaha, what are you thinking?) The answer is at one time or the other they'll burst and let you know that they don't respect you for not earning.

Do you think they sympathize with your situation? Yes they do. Sympathizing itself means a disrespect. To sympathize with a situation is to feel helpless, hopeless, pessimist. Its of no use. What one needs is Support- emotional and spiritual. Why your own loved ones lack in giving you that?

The simple and straight answer is they have spent on you and they want the return. They have spent not just money but their hard work, their time, their sincerity, their will and the last thing they want is to see you successful. When they see you loosing thy cant take it. They become frustrated and burst out. Is it their love? Yes it is they have a right to speak their heart out in front of you. Isn't it?

And when ever you feel you are disrespected by your loved ones or by the person least expected, always thank him or her for giving you the challenge to fight. For giving you the chance to prove yourself. Don't be disheartened, depressed and helpless. Just keep faith in yourself, your patience, your sincerity, your will power. You may take time to reach your dream. But the truth is time has to pass. It'll pass.
Till the time you don't deserve a thing, it'll not reach you. So in case you are not getting anything just put lil more effort and you will be bang on there. Always remember even airplane has to reach take off speed for that it rolls on runways before getting airborne. So keep rolling until you build the take off speed and soon you'll lift off. :) (tweet- worthy)

To walk a rosy path and reach your destination can never give you pleasure. The pleasure is in walking stony thorny burning path. The adventure lies in making your own path, finding unusual ways to reach your destination. And when finally you reach it there can be no feeling matchable to that.

So my friends who so ever feel he/she is suffering by not getting what they want, kindly stop feeling helpless and suffered. The time, the situation and your people are making you strong like iron. You are turning out to be a soldier, a steel man, UNBREAKABLE. An d I am proud to be an UNBREAKABLE. Keep chanting that "No one can break me, I am strong enough to fight the world. The power lies in me. I am my HERO." ( tweet- worthy)
Believe me, these lines will bring you back to the senses.These will sync you back with the life.

DILEMMA ABOUT FREEDOM

Dilemma about freedom

FREE- DOM- Is freedom free of safety, security, harassment for girls? Freedom is what every one needs. If someone is restricted, caged and stopped to follow one's will, one feels dead. Isn't it?? Free will will make you fly. It will make you fulfill all your dreams. It will help you grow beautifully inside out. Freedom gives you self confidence and positivity.

What role freedom plays in a relationship? Freedom in a relationship means SPACE. True and healthy relationship is the one where no one binds eachother instead where both of them Fly together.Constant questioning, Doubting, reporting, insecurity, lack of trust: these may lead to a suffering, a burdened relationship.

What wonders can freedom do in a family?Parents should give enough freedom to thier children if they want to show them the right path in life. My parents trust me blindly, actually I should not use the word blindly that may portray that I am at fault and making fool of my parents. They trust me totally. Now it sounds much better. :) I treat my parents as my best friends. Why???

Because they have given me my space. They listen to my problems and not shout and react. Instead give me the support that "yeah we are with you darling." They are very calm with me and thats the reason I feel free with them. Now I can never think of misusing the freedom they have given me. I'll always respect my morals and principles.

Now how can one misuse the freedom??? What too much of freedom can result into??? How to know one's own limits??? OK!!! now as I told you freedom means to do whatever one feels like doing. Do you think our heart always tell you to do the right thing? I think No,  heart makes you an emotional vampire. There should be a synchronization between your mind, heart and soul.

When three of them tell you something to do, JUST DO IT without giving it a second thought.When three of them are conflicting, do what your intuition, gut feeling or soul (whatever you call it) is advising you to do. You'll never be misguided. Thats how you will know your limits. To respect your limits means freedom. 

Now talk about freedom of girls in India and abroad. In Indian culture girls are the representative of the family "aan baan shaan" i.e. prestige. Why only girls are responsible for it?
If I'll tell my father that "daddy if you can allow my brother to go on a tour with his freinds, why cant you allow me?" What  he gonna tell me  "Dear you are a girl thats why."

Why is he being partial? And the biggest reason is : he cares. In India girls are not secured. And we have to understand this. In schools instead of PT, girls should be taught Twakando, judo karate and other self defense activities.

Whats the scene in abroad?? In western culture girls and boys are treated on same level. Parents leave them on thier own. They actually do whatever they feel like. They hardly have any limits. Still they feel depressed, sad and lonely. Why?? The reason is too much of freedom and lack of limits.

So we should have freedom in life but up to what extent totally depends on you and only you. So know your limits and you'll be flying High leaving all the worries back down there.

 Eye- Opening Quotes about FREEDOM

“The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off.”
― Gloria Steinem 

“Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.”
― Mahatma Gandhi 

“I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will.”
― Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre  

“I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do.”
― Robert A. Heinlein
 


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