DILEMMA ABOUT TIME

Let it go. Let it move away. Let it follow its direction. You cannot get hold of anyone in life. Not time. Not people and not circumstances. All of them will move. Nothing remains stagnant and that is what life is. 

People come in your life- gives you memories to cherish lifelong, lessons unlimited, make you understand who you are, some will be your inspiration, some will be your power and some will be the reasons for your successful in way or the other. 

But no one will stick with you forever. One has to leave. Everyone has got a role to play in your life. The day role is going to over, person has to leave.  But you’ll not be empty handed. You’ll be having his/her words always with you ringing in your head.

Talk about time and circumstances. You are happy- you are enjoying- you are shopping- you are hanging out- you are travelling- you are back to work- you are back to daily routine- Someone passes away- you are sad- you are broken- you have lost the job- you are disappointed- you are losing hope- you got a chance once again- you got a job- you got a routine- you are back to normal. 

Time can never remain the same. It tests you. But you’ll always pass the test as time has to pass.

So the bottom line is- Never get hold of things in life. The more you want to hold them, the more you’ll be suffering when they’ll leave you. Sand in your hand will leave your grip and escape. If water becomes stagnant, it’ll stink badly. The same way your life will stink if situations will remain constant.

Moral of the story is - Nothing lasts forever. Like the trees in autumn, you too must learn to shed your attachments and start afresh.

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DILEMMA ABOUT "MOVING ON"

When people tell you to move on, what do they actually mean. Should you simply forget everything that occurred in past? Should you simply detach yourself from your past? How could one do that? People should say things which they themselves can do. Else whatever they are saying is making no sense.

Moving On means to start living once again. To start caring about oneself once again. To be on the road back to normal. To laugh aloud when alone even though your throat is choked. To sing aloud in shower. To feel the nature. To give chance to others to get closer to you. To keep doors open to let in the happiness. Yeah this is my definition of moving on.

For say if you have lost your beloved. But if you are told not to remember him, not cry for him, not to crave for him, not to remember the beautiful times you spend with him. Excuse me you are a human being and that too a normal human being and not a person with memory loss. This taruma will be there with you till your last breathe.

You must be wishing right now that "God please erase my memory and then I'll be all right." Is this possible? Noooo. 

So I believe Moving On means to be happy and calm where ever you are, with whomsoever you are, in what ever conditions you are. As nothing remains constant. Time changes, circumstance changes, outlook for life changes, what doesn't change is your soul. I wanna be successful but the most important thing is I wanna be a person I can fall in love with.

Moving on comes with trying. As nothing can be done without giving it a try. For every thing to do in life you need to take a leap of faith. Life is a path made of leaps of faith itself. No matter what happens in life you should never stop trying.The day you have stopped doing that you are giving a call to more sufferings. you will only suffer when you want that. Start feeling happy about what you have and you'll attract more happiness. So the biggest way out of moving on is KEEP TRYING.  

A never give up attitude in life always keep you alive.If you cant get up in the worst then you'll never be able to hold the best.If you are loosing hope and courage now you are closing your doors for the future reasons of merry- making.Time will never reamin the same. Bad times will be leaded by the good times. And if you'll not have bad times you can never value good times. So bad is the new good. 

Look back over the last 10 years of your life. Make a list of the worst things that happened to you. Look at your fears. Your sadness. Your rock bottoms.

Then, realize that even though you went through ALL of THAT, you made it to today. Use this as evidence of how strong you are, and how Loving The Universe really is. And then, with this new evidence, perhaps you will have even more faith and desire to march with your head held high and your chest proud into the unknown.Why? Because when you look back at your life 10 years from then, you will feel the same way then also and that is... that no matter what happened... you made it.

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