DILEMMA ABOUT EXPECTATION

Expect-tation meaning by Collin's dictionary is a strong belief that something will happen or be the case.To have strong belief is good. But to crave for the future is bad. Confused!!! To have faith in your destiny is a good thing as life is a series of leaps of faith. Faith is the antidote of fear. But as and when you start expecting things, faith becomes a disease as it 'll give rise to fear.

So the point here I would like to make is Have faith in yourself but never expect anything out of it. Keep doing your work sincerely. Perform the task given to you by the Uni-verse. That is in your hands but time is not in your hands.

Destiny is not in your hands. You are the creation and Creator is looking after the time and destiny. Let him perform his tasks. You should concentrate on your activities.

Now another discussion about expectation is in terms of relationships. Should we expect from our partners, parents, friends and all our near and dear ones. My answer is you should not. You must be wondering, how come we should not expect from the close people. Then what is the use of being close to them? This question itself contains the answer- USE. When we love we cant think of using the other person.

If a person is loving, caring, understanding, supportive to you. It doesn't mean you start expecting things from him. He loves you selflessly. And for me expectation is all about selfishness.

The root cause of misunderstanding, clashes between loved ones is EXPECTATIONS. The day you'll stop expecting from your partner and start loving him or her the way he/she is, you'll enter the heaven.

So should we expect or not? Yes you should expect but just from yourself. Expect things out of you. That will give spirit to move on, to walk forward with grace, to step into the unknown. But the key here is as excess of everything is bad. Dont expect too much. And how will you know you are crossing the limits. Simple, every one knows one's potential. So expect in proportion of your potential. If you want to expect more, increase your potential.

So keep going, keep moving, keep working towards your goals. Your task is moving.

Eye- Opening Quotes about EXPECTATIONS

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.” 
― Donald Miller

“I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.” 
― Bruce Lee

“It takes three to make love, not two: you, your spouse, and God. Without God people only succeed in bringing out the worst in one another. Lovers who have nothing else to do but love each other soon find there is nothing else. Without a central loyalty life is unfinished.” 
― Fulton J. Sheen

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DILEMMA ABOUT LOVE

So valentine week is here. Love is in the air. So lets gather around and talk about Love.

Sometimes I feel love can really make you weak, tensed and lost. As when you love someone and they are away from you, you are always tensed about them. You always crave to meet them, to talk to them but there comes many situations which will try to separate you from your loved ones be it distance, time or misunderstanding.

Sometimes I feel If there would be no love, how would one can survive. No reason to live for. No one to care about. No longing for someone. Bahhhhhhhhhhh boring.

But just think if we guys start loving ourselves. Start caring about ourselves. Try to run behind our dreams. Yeah sure it will give us immense happiness. But you know what when you'll see your loved one happy faces just because you achieved something.. Believe me you will feel nothing better than that.

What I have learnt is excess of everything is bad. Even love can make you crippled if you keep loving others and not yourself. The day you will start loving yourself, there will be no look back.

The day you'll fall for yourself, it'll be the day you'll rise for others. Confusing right??? Ok i'll make it simpler for you. The fact is when you are happy with yourself then only you can spread love. To love somebody first you have to love yourself.

The day you'll start loving yourself truly, you'll never ever be falling in a ditch. You'll never be following the wrong path.The path of love, goodness, roses will open for you to step forward. And you'll see the drastic change in your environment. People will start loving you immensely.They will look forward to you. You'll become their ideal. They will learn the way of living from you.

So the key to all sufferings is SELF-LOVE.
Love yourself, be good to yourself. Be the person you can fall in love with and there you go. Bang On!!!

You gonna make your life beautiful by doing so. No fear, no worry, no misery, no suffering, any kinda negativity will surrender in front of you. Victory will be all yours. You are abundant. Just remember that. You are not alone. You have soul- your best friend in you. Wake it up before its too late.

Our body is like a factory. And our soul is a manager.If manager gives responsibilities to all the labors and becomes careless. What happens??? The factory gonna shut down one day. The very same way if we give our life to our brain and heart which are nothing but labors. We gonna be facing the loss. Whom we should try to listen to. And the answer is SOUL.

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DILEMMA ABOUT "MOVING ON"

When people tell you to move on, what do they actually mean. Should you simply forget everything that occurred in past? Should you simply detach yourself from your past? How could one do that? People should say things which they themselves can do. Else whatever they are saying is making no sense.

Moving On means to start living once again. To start caring about oneself once again. To be on the road back to normal. To laugh aloud when alone even though your throat is choked. To sing aloud in shower. To feel the nature. To give chance to others to get closer to you. To keep doors open to let in the happiness. Yeah this is my definition of moving on.

For say if you have lost your beloved. But if you are told not to remember him, not cry for him, not to crave for him, not to remember the beautiful times you spend with him. Excuse me you are a human being and that too a normal human being and not a person with memory loss. This taruma will be there with you till your last breathe.

You must be wishing right now that "God please erase my memory and then I'll be all right." Is this possible? Noooo. 

So I believe Moving On means to be happy and calm where ever you are, with whomsoever you are, in what ever conditions you are. As nothing remains constant. Time changes, circumstance changes, outlook for life changes, what doesn't change is your soul. I wanna be successful but the most important thing is I wanna be a person I can fall in love with.

Moving on comes with trying. As nothing can be done without giving it a try. For every thing to do in life you need to take a leap of faith. Life is a path made of leaps of faith itself. No matter what happens in life you should never stop trying.The day you have stopped doing that you are giving a call to more sufferings. you will only suffer when you want that. Start feeling happy about what you have and you'll attract more happiness. So the biggest way out of moving on is KEEP TRYING.  

A never give up attitude in life always keep you alive.If you cant get up in the worst then you'll never be able to hold the best.If you are loosing hope and courage now you are closing your doors for the future reasons of merry- making.Time will never reamin the same. Bad times will be leaded by the good times. And if you'll not have bad times you can never value good times. So bad is the new good. 

Look back over the last 10 years of your life. Make a list of the worst things that happened to you. Look at your fears. Your sadness. Your rock bottoms.

Then, realize that even though you went through ALL of THAT, you made it to today. Use this as evidence of how strong you are, and how Loving The Universe really is. And then, with this new evidence, perhaps you will have even more faith and desire to march with your head held high and your chest proud into the unknown.Why? Because when you look back at your life 10 years from then, you will feel the same way then also and that is... that no matter what happened... you made it.

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