DILEMMA ABOUT TIME

Let it go. Let it move away. Let it follow its direction. You cannot get hold of anyone in life. Not time. Not people and not circumstances. All of them will move. Nothing remains stagnant and that is what life is. 

People come in your life- gives you memories to cherish lifelong, lessons unlimited, make you understand who you are, some will be your inspiration, some will be your power and some will be the reasons for your successful in way or the other. 

But no one will stick with you forever. One has to leave. Everyone has got a role to play in your life. The day role is going to over, person has to leave.  But you’ll not be empty handed. You’ll be having his/her words always with you ringing in your head.

Talk about time and circumstances. You are happy- you are enjoying- you are shopping- you are hanging out- you are travelling- you are back to work- you are back to daily routine- Someone passes away- you are sad- you are broken- you have lost the job- you are disappointed- you are losing hope- you got a chance once again- you got a job- you got a routine- you are back to normal. 

Time can never remain the same. It tests you. But you’ll always pass the test as time has to pass.

So the bottom line is- Never get hold of things in life. The more you want to hold them, the more you’ll be suffering when they’ll leave you. Sand in your hand will leave your grip and escape. If water becomes stagnant, it’ll stink badly. The same way your life will stink if situations will remain constant.

Moral of the story is - Nothing lasts forever. Like the trees in autumn, you too must learn to shed your attachments and start afresh.

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DILEMMA ABOUT EXPECTATION

Expect-tation meaning by Collin's dictionary is a strong belief that something will happen or be the case.To have strong belief is good. But to crave for the future is bad. Confused!!! To have faith in your destiny is a good thing as life is a series of leaps of faith. Faith is the antidote of fear. But as and when you start expecting things, faith becomes a disease as it 'll give rise to fear.

So the point here I would like to make is Have faith in yourself but never expect anything out of it. Keep doing your work sincerely. Perform the task given to you by the Uni-verse. That is in your hands but time is not in your hands.

Destiny is not in your hands. You are the creation and Creator is looking after the time and destiny. Let him perform his tasks. You should concentrate on your activities.

Now another discussion about expectation is in terms of relationships. Should we expect from our partners, parents, friends and all our near and dear ones. My answer is you should not. You must be wondering, how come we should not expect from the close people. Then what is the use of being close to them? This question itself contains the answer- USE. When we love we cant think of using the other person.

If a person is loving, caring, understanding, supportive to you. It doesn't mean you start expecting things from him. He loves you selflessly. And for me expectation is all about selfishness.

The root cause of misunderstanding, clashes between loved ones is EXPECTATIONS. The day you'll stop expecting from your partner and start loving him or her the way he/she is, you'll enter the heaven.

So should we expect or not? Yes you should expect but just from yourself. Expect things out of you. That will give spirit to move on, to walk forward with grace, to step into the unknown. But the key here is as excess of everything is bad. Dont expect too much. And how will you know you are crossing the limits. Simple, every one knows one's potential. So expect in proportion of your potential. If you want to expect more, increase your potential.

So keep going, keep moving, keep working towards your goals. Your task is moving.

Eye- Opening Quotes about EXPECTATIONS

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.” 
― Donald Miller

“I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.” 
― Bruce Lee

“It takes three to make love, not two: you, your spouse, and God. Without God people only succeed in bringing out the worst in one another. Lovers who have nothing else to do but love each other soon find there is nothing else. Without a central loyalty life is unfinished.” 
― Fulton J. Sheen

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DILEMMA ABOUT FEAR

OK. So what is fear according to you? For me fear is nothing but a lack of sense of security, lack of faith, lack of hope, lack of self love. Fear is a lack.

So why one is afraid? The root reason behind the fear is losing. Be it losing love, losing a match, losing a game, loosing a friend, losing money. Whenever you feel like a loser, it means you are surrounded by fear.

Can fear be good in any way? My answer is yes. It keeps you going. If one is not afraid of anything, he can never value that thing. He'll be taking it for granted. He'll be careless towards it. And fear of losing will not affect him. So yes lil fear is good.

But too much anything is bad. And so is the case with fear. You'll lose hope and courage if you are way too afraid. You'll keep doubting your destiny and you'll end up no where. The juice of life is still left for such people to taste.

So just have lil fear in yourself and just run behind your dreams. Keep working towards them. And whenever you are afraid, just give it a thought : " Why you dreamt of such thing? What you gonna do when you'll finally reach your destination? And why you thought you have that potential to reach there?" And half the work is done.

Whenever you lose hope in life think about your achievements in life. Achievements need not to be big. For me bringing happiness on people's face is an achievement. Just ponder on "what defines your achievement?"

Whenever you feel like you gonna lose a friend or love partner. First analyse where you went wrong. And if the answer is you gave your 100 percent and still it didn't work out. Just say it in your mind that the other person is unlucky to not have you in his life. Always have that attitude in life. This is the way to reach the right person in life.


So the remedy to fear is Self- Trust and Self- Love. So people out there keep loving yourself. Have faith in yourself and you'll be there BANG ON!!!

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DILEMMA ABOUT LOVE

So valentine week is here. Love is in the air. So lets gather around and talk about Love.

Sometimes I feel love can really make you weak, tensed and lost. As when you love someone and they are away from you, you are always tensed about them. You always crave to meet them, to talk to them but there comes many situations which will try to separate you from your loved ones be it distance, time or misunderstanding.

Sometimes I feel If there would be no love, how would one can survive. No reason to live for. No one to care about. No longing for someone. Bahhhhhhhhhhh boring.

But just think if we guys start loving ourselves. Start caring about ourselves. Try to run behind our dreams. Yeah sure it will give us immense happiness. But you know what when you'll see your loved one happy faces just because you achieved something.. Believe me you will feel nothing better than that.

What I have learnt is excess of everything is bad. Even love can make you crippled if you keep loving others and not yourself. The day you will start loving yourself, there will be no look back.

The day you'll fall for yourself, it'll be the day you'll rise for others. Confusing right??? Ok i'll make it simpler for you. The fact is when you are happy with yourself then only you can spread love. To love somebody first you have to love yourself.

The day you'll start loving yourself truly, you'll never ever be falling in a ditch. You'll never be following the wrong path.The path of love, goodness, roses will open for you to step forward. And you'll see the drastic change in your environment. People will start loving you immensely.They will look forward to you. You'll become their ideal. They will learn the way of living from you.

So the key to all sufferings is SELF-LOVE.
Love yourself, be good to yourself. Be the person you can fall in love with and there you go. Bang On!!!

You gonna make your life beautiful by doing so. No fear, no worry, no misery, no suffering, any kinda negativity will surrender in front of you. Victory will be all yours. You are abundant. Just remember that. You are not alone. You have soul- your best friend in you. Wake it up before its too late.

Our body is like a factory. And our soul is a manager.If manager gives responsibilities to all the labors and becomes careless. What happens??? The factory gonna shut down one day. The very same way if we give our life to our brain and heart which are nothing but labors. We gonna be facing the loss. Whom we should try to listen to. And the answer is SOUL.

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DILEMMA ABOUT GOD

Ok. So what is God? For some he is a supreme power, for some he is a creator, for some he is an ideal, for some he is immortal and like wise there are many beliefs about God.

Different mythologies define God differently. Many forms of God ,we guys are aware of. In India the basic reason of holidays is God. Isn't it???

Let me tell you my version of God. For me God  lies in GOOD. Simple and straight. When a person is good to himself and to others, he is a God.

Heaven, hell, devil, angel all resides on this planet earth. In fact all these reside in us.
The moment we feel bad about anything, we have entered the hell automatically. Negativity leads you to hell.

Killing is a crime. But killing Negativity is a boon for the society. I know being a social human being, to stay away from negativity is tough. But I'll tell you the way to get rid of it. All right!!! suppose a person is trying to give you a tough time say its your boss, colleague, relative, friend, family member or even stranger. What you simply have to do is keep calm at that moment. Just go silent look into his eyes. Don't loose the smile on your face. Feel good as you are the reason for eradicating some one's frustration. You are doing charity dude. Feel good about yourself. The other person will be stunned by the way you'll be behaving. And for sure he gonna feel guilty about what he did whether he admits it or not. But believe me Silence is far more stronger than words.

When ever you feel you are surrounded by negativity.Try to emit your moonlight. Show your madness then and there. You are a God. Every one is God. Keep it alive always.

The day you will realize that you have come alone on this earth and will bid the planet all alone, you got the mantra of life. In every religious book you must have read that every one has come alone and one has to leave this earth one fine day. Why they have mentioned that? The reason being we are a social being. We will build relationships. We will be attached to human race emotionally and physically. And we will  be sad when our loved one will be sad as we are attached to him. This is the basic difference between God and human. No one can make him sad. God knows that he has come alone and has to serve a purpose on this earth and will leave one day.

We take care of our body so much that we are neglecting our soul. Every one has to turn to ashes one day. What every one has is,  SOUL (GOOD). Body is just the covering of it. Without skin Human is the most ugly thing ever. Vultures will have their meal throughout. "And we are taking care of the gift wrap and not gift. "
Start caring about your soul. Start listening to your soul. Soul can only make of Aware. And the day you have become aware, you have become God.

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DILEMMA ABOUT COMPROMISE

I have seen many people saying that life is all about comprise whether you accept it or not. And I strongly disagree that. We are not here to compromise. We have a purpose and that is why we are sent here. 
See what we do our whole lives and especially woman. When a baby is born he doesn't know who he is. He gets his identity from his parents. He is sent to temple, mosque, synagogue, monastery and like that he gets his religion. 

Eventually he starts learning about relations, life, hardships,victory, failure and thick and thins of life. He starts thinking about his own family members and starts sacrificing his dreams for his family. Which in my view is the blunder he is doing. One should never kill his dreams as this will not give him happiness and that in turn will not make his loved ones happy. At times you feel like I dream a lot more than my capability. You doubt yourself, again you are committing one more mistake. To fulfill all your dreams you may take time, you may disappoint your loved ones for a while but believe when you reach your goal they will be more than happy. They stop you from those things which in their view give you pain. They are impatient. But you should not be. 

Now lets gather around and talk about love relationships. A guy likes a gal and the gal likes a guy. Perfect. They are certain that they can live with each other forever. Awesome and simple Isn't it?? Now how after certain period of time you can think about the same person that he she has changed over time and I don't feel the same for her or him. I think if I'll be with him or her I am gonna compromise throughout my life. She is the same gal and he is the same guy. What must have happened???

It means they became certain about each other just too fast. That s where patience and time plays a very important role in every aspect of your life. 
Compromise should not come in any relation that is what I feel. You both should be free birds while being in a relationship. If he/ she loves you it simply means yes they love YOU fully you and just not a part of you. So, accept your partner the way he/she is. 

Don't try to bring changes in them for your own good. Yes you can tell them things if you think those things can bring a positive change in the other person. Nothing wrong in that. But there should be a way of telling. You should calmly tell your partner that buddy what you are doing can relle put you in trouble and that's it. And then don't expect that they gonna listen to you. As they are individuals. You can never force anybody to do something , you just can tell them.

This way make your life simpler, happier and worth living. Live and let live. Where there is love there is no force. Let your partner be him or her.

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Welcome to Life (Asylum)

"A- Way from Catch 22"- A paradox in which the attempt to escape makes escape impossible.

What life is? A life is a situation ,you cannot escape until unless the supreme power wants it. You cannot escape life yourself. So Life is a" catch 22 situation". You have to live life. So how about living it beautifully. 

Life is a series of dilemma. Since the time we become conscious about oneself, dilemma begins. What to do in life? With whom you should live your life? Who can be your friends? Which career is best for you? Whom to marry? How to lead a peaceful married life? And so on.... 

The sole purpose of this blog is to take you away from all the dilemmas that life is providing us. To find a way in the direction opposite to our dilemmas.


I want to present you an ASYLUM OF LIFE. Here we will ponder upon our dilemmas. We gonna beat all the dilemmas. Once we have beaten all confusions, we will enter the heaven - LIFE!!!

Some people just do it. Some people take thier time to think, analyse and apply. Some believe in hit and trial and some believe in reasoning. Who is better? and Why? We together will reach to the conclusion. 


We all our a family. We all have to support each other and we all will find a way out together. We all are humans and our religion is HUMANITY. Your worries, miseries, dilemmas are most welcome here.

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